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You’re Still Samoan Even If You Don’t Speak the Language
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This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. For many Samoans, not speaking the language carries a quiet kind of pain. It shows up in jokes that sting.In moments of silence when others are speaking.In the feeling of being “not Samoan enough.” Some people pull away from culture altogether because the shame feels too heavy.Others stay close but shrink themselves, afraid of being judged. If this sounds familiar, hear this clearly: You are still Samoan—even if you don’t speak the language. Where the Shame Comes...
Small Daily Ways to Practice Fa‘asamoa Overseas
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This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. When people think of Fa‘asamoa, they often picture big moments. Formal ceremonies.Church events.Large family gatherings. But Fa‘asamoa is not something we only bring out on special occasions. Fa‘asamoa is lived daily. And for those of us raising families or building lives overseas, this is actually good news. It means culture doesn’t disappear just because we are far from home. It adapts. It continues. It lives in small, everyday choices. Fa‘asamoa Is About How You Live, Not Where You...
Raising Samoan Kids Outside Samoa: What Matters Most
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This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Raising Samoan children outside of Samoa can feel heavy. There is love, pride, and deep responsibility—but also pressure. Pressure to teach everything. Pressure to “do culture right.” Pressure to make sure our children don’t lose who they are. Many parents quietly worry:What if I don’t know enough?What if my Samoan isn’t strong?What if my child grows up feeling disconnected? Here’s the truth that many of us need to hear more often:Culture is not about knowing everything. Culture is...
Learning Samoan for Yourself, Not to Impress Anyone
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For many Samoans, learning the Samoan language feels emotionally loaded. It’s rarely just about grammar or vocabulary—it’s about fear. Fear of being corrected, laughed at, or told you should already know. Fear of confirming the belief that you somehow failed your culture.
Coming Home Without Moving Back: How Samoans Overseas Can Reconnect With Culture
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This post contains affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. Living away from Samoa can create a quiet ache. It’s not always loud or dramatic—it shows up in moments when you don’t know the right words, when your children ask questions you struggle to answer, or when culture feels just out of reach. For many Samoans living overseas, reconnecting with Samoan culture feels tied to one idea: moving back home. But reconnecting does not require relocation. It requires intention. Coming home is not only about land. It is...